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We all have the power to give ourselves love and caring

As we become more able to accept people as they are, 

we become more able to choose those who are good for us

 and bless and release those who are not.  

It is a spiritual law that what we are meant to know 

will be revealed to us without any effort on our part.  

We are wise to trust the timing and methods regarding such disclosures.  

Your soul has designed this life for you in order for you to learn its lessons.  Be grateful for all those people who have been your teachers.

 It is never too late to heal ourselves and our relationships, even with people who are no longer alive.  People's spirits endure, just as ours do, and respond to our changes of heart.

 People rarely change except through unbearable pain:  

When we relieve another's pain, we often short-circuit that person's motivation to change.  

That is why most of our efforts to solve another's problems actually prolong and perpetuate those problems.

Unfortunately, when we love too much, anothers tolerance for pain is usually greater than our tolerance for watching it.  Instead of trying to fix problems, we need to get out of the way of their consequences.

We receive what we send out- so send out blessings.